Ever heard about Negatives? No! I am not talking about the reel negatives, but obviously the people around you who play that role. We have vamps in Indian television who are obviously swearing on the lives of heroines and villains in every story, epic, movie, poem, novel, play etc. Who are they? How do they start thinking bad? Why are their minds so dirty?. I can’t define their structure and stature but definitely their psychology.
People are inclined to become negative more because the id of a human psyche that holds onto the negative experiences more. Some negative moments gets stuck in our mind and makes us negative. We become hyper-focused on the negative, so we have a hard time seeing, hearing, or feeling positive. Whenever we have bad break ups, we start taking every relation that we hold as bad and it becomes harder as we move on. If we talk about other situations, the child who has always been neglected from the family starts to keep itself away from the family because its psyche knows that his importance has no worth there. In a genre of narcissism we sometimes meet people who don’t want to get clicked because they have been warned by the society of their unsymmetrical features. These are not the negative people but in my language “artificial negatives” who are forcing others to work in the way that society has always been accepting.
How to deal these? Trying to avoid them is the worst you can do to them. Show them their real sides- the side they were born with. Embellish them with your pure love and accept them with your greatest heart. These people are pokey obviously, so take their pokes as pinch. And smile when you are with them. They usually become highly frustrated due to their bad experience, try to portrait the other side of the coin to them. And if you are not friends with them and because usually these are you enemies, try your best to forgive them while at the same time showing them their comment didn’t have any effect over you. Let’s become kind to these and shower our unconditional love by being optimistic.